Sleeping with the enemy!
December 8, 2006If I really want to figure out the source here then I suppose I would lose myself in history since the issue of concern travels down the road a long long way. And then it dawns on me that this has been happening since time immemorial.Yes people of the world, I am talking about marriage and about the new relations that come attatched with it.Whether you like it or not,this is a package deal that you have to deal with!
Suddenly the terms,”crossing the line” are interpretted as the ”starting line”,where the ordeal has just begun. And in case you are not quite familiar with the tricks of trade,then it’s time to fasten the seat belts for the roller coaster ride that you have set upon. Living on the edge is now your new lifestyle and consider every sugar coated praise aimed in your direction as a vodoo chant covered with malice.
Like there are two sides to a coin,so this to has different shades. I don’t know if the good side exists but maybe it varies. It does make your life easier in some ways and a living hell in other cases.
Also,now it’s easier to classify the the sea of people in this world and there are only two categories :mean and meaner. And the thinking theory that “people of the world are nice and not everyone is out to take you for a ride” ……is a myth.The naked truth is this that they are out to get you in every possible way they can,so beware!
Honestly,not everything is topsy-turvy about relations + marriage,after all it’s teaching you to be the master of the trade,you can now easily number the levels there are to craftiness and double crossing. Also you learn how to analyze each double meaning sentence addressed to you and that is when your sixth sense confirms your worst fear is about to come true!
Also, the politics going on in the world are making more sense and why not?quite possibly the politicians learnt all the tricks of the trade from marriage itself!Now it’s making sense as to why they wanna unleash their fury over everybody else and for once you cannot help but agree with them.
Well, it’s not all sad here in the boulevard of life,there are those lucky few who walk away unscratched but I guess these are the people who are only heard of,never seen…..and if they do exist…then please tell them to throw some
pearls of wisdom on my side too!!
I’m impressed with your views on sensitive issue of marriage. I do believe that marrige is a delicate issue that should be judged on all aspects. But look at the beauty of it. Almost every relation comes by birth, Father, Mother,Brother,Sister,Uncle,Aunty..etc. .. but the one name is hidden… God made you search for it.. That search..that eagerness makes it special.. That’s why a feeling of Romance is there….